What Is a Karmic Soulmate? How To Identify Them?

Remember the times when you met someone, with who you had connected almost immediately and then, just like air, the relationship ended almost instantly? Did you blame yourself? Or did you try to put the blame on the other person? Did you cry a lot and almost lost your mind trying to figure out what went wrong? Then, maybe instantly you figured something out. Maybe it wasn’t so “instant”, maybe it took a while, but almost like a light bulb went off in your head, that “this” is what should be and not “that”. If all of these and possibly more have happened to you and you are still trying to figure out what really went wrong, let us tell you, you have met your karmic soulmate.

What Is A Karmic Soulmate?

Let me paint you a hypothetical scenario to help you understand the meaning of a karmic soulmate. Once upon a time, in the land of adolescence, a woman was infatuated with a man. She was coming to her being, understanding what love and passion meant. They were in close proximity at all times. There was a sense of passion and an air of love whenever they connected. The girl could feel the spark and the man had a twinkle in his eyes whenever he saw her. Needless to say, they were in “love”.

The boy asked the girl out and the girl promptly said yes. They were dating for the longest time, everything made sense and nothing made sense. The worlds collided and there were rainbows everywhere. The girl was ready to do everything for him, even leave her family to be with him. Now, the girl was not being naïve, she did not want to marry him, she just wanted to give this relationship a real shot. But, then just like that, the relationship ended.

‘Why?’ you ask. The girl had no clue. The boy became distant. The boy just disappeared from her life. The girl would come across this same boy, over and over again, due to family ties and she knew that although something had died between them, the spark was still there. They longed for each other, but the boy had already found someone else. He was her karmic soulmate.

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What Is A Karmic Relationship?

The boy started to gaslight the girl that there is love somewhere, it was just the girl is too young for him. The boy promised that when the girl comes of age, he will surely get back to her. The girl waited and then waited a little longer and then some more and the boy never returned. One day, the girl realized that the boy taught her an important life lesson- to never put your life on hold for someone, live your life and if something is meant to be, it will be.

You see how easily the toxicity built and the girl was blinded by her “love”. She rather chose denial than believe the truth that was right in front of her. She did realize this later in life, but she did waste a lot of time waiting for the boy. The girl still feels the spark, the girl still sees the glistening eyes of the boy when he looks at her, but she knows better that- there are plenty of fishes in the sea to offer a lot more companionship than she can ever imagine. This part, where the relationship ended abruptly, but there was a life lesson like a “moral of the story,” is exactly what a Karmic relationship is.

Karmic Relationship vs Twin Flame

Ah! This is an important thing to understand. How is a twin flame different from a karmic relationship? So, we have established what a karmic relationship is. Let’s discuss what a twin flame is:

Unlike a karmic relationship or karmic soulmate, a Twin flame is when you meet the other half of yourself but it is calm and it is smooth and easy. A twin flame is someone who shares similar experiences, happiness, and sadness, and makes similar life choices and such. You feel like you have met the other version and you feel complete. This is when you do not feel that you are engulfed in a toxic environment, but rather the best version of companionship.

How Can You Identify a Karmic Soulmate?

It is important to identify your karmic soulmate before you exhaust yourself with all the toxicity and lies.

You Feel the Intense Heat, Immediately

When you meet your karmic soulmate, you feel your bones are powder, your heart is a lot, your body is on fire and your brain is gently evaporating. The person in front of you becomes the focus and everything else feels like a hazy resemblance to a past life. When you see this person, you want to mesh in together and find a place of exuberant passion and happiness.

You See the Red but Choose To Deny It

Red flags are everywhere when you meet your karmic soulmate. You will know that there is something fundamentally incorrect, but you just can’t deny the chemistry. You see that the person is becoming your vices, but then again, your body is on auto-pilot and you don’t have the cognitive ability to think about how to stop yourself from making mistakes.

If they are Toxic, It’s Almost A Karmic Soulmate

You will find that toxicity will engulf you in some form. Let’s say that the person might not be toxic, for a matter of fact, the person can be the best thing to happen to you. But with the intensity with which the love, obsession, and passion will surround the relationship, it will be easy for it to turn sour. You will feel the toxicity and you will choose to ignore it and honestly, it’s alright. Just don’t let it get too far.

Drama Defines the Relationship

You will see a lot of highs and a lot of lows. This relationship will be exhausting. You will never be able to wrap your head around the fact that- how can something so perfect, so amazing, have so many issues? You will surely define it as passion and the fact that you are two different people and you must have your opinions. Just remember, what is meant to be will be understanding, and will bring calm and not drama. A karmic soulmate won’t bring much to the relationship that a twin flame will.

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The relationship will fizzle sooner or later

A karmic soulmate never lasts. The relationship can go on for years and then it will just dim down. You will learn your lesson and you will try and implement it. It will be the lowest period of your life but trust us, you will be better.

The woes of being in love or feeling an intense connection with someone are the worst. When a karmic relationship ends, it feels like the death of yourself. It feels like the world is on fire and you choose to jump in it but the fire refuses to burn you, rather you are in pain. The kind of pain that cannot be defined in words. But, remember these karmic soulmates are there for you. It will build you up and then make you stronger. You can always deny it, but for better or for worse, you might actually start to appreciate the life lessons. At least, when you meet your twin flame, it might help you connect instantly.